Family
The basic unit of society was the family with the man as the public facing representative.
Same roles
Dual income household
Home ownership – Mortgage Debt
Nuclear families. Non-extended families.
Not many children.
Not equality, but sameness.
Kids taken care by the state.
They teach the LGBT stuff in schools.
Nuclear family Monogamy is a very new and modern idea.
Hierarchy
Mutual dependence
Urbanization is very new
Spouses are less dependent on each other.
More easily separably.
Siblings are all separate.
Children are more independent from the parents.
Life of leisure – Dependent on others to do every small thing
Quran and Sunnah is a sophisticated manual for a sophisticated life
- Without Quran and Sunnah we will get hurt or even destroyed.
- Living by Islamic Values is the only solution for:
- Successful Relationships.
- Successful marriage.
- Successful family.
- Successful community.
- Successful life.
- Successful afterlife.
Islam as a Religion
- The essence is the manifestation of His attributes in life and on earth
- Everyone will be improved by Islam. Islam will only refine you further.
- ChatGPT says that Islam is the most rational religion, with Monotheism being the most rational conception of God.
- Islam is conducive to more harmony than any other religion.
- Islam means peace and seeks to achieve peace where possible.
- Islam prohibits aggression.
Relationships
Without vulnerability, their is no love
Love
- Love is work, responsibility and discipline.
- Love does not just happen. Love is built.
- Love is easy when their is no real responsibility, when stress builds, when the
- Love that is earned and fought for is infinitely stronger.
- A man who lacks purpose, lazy, undisciplined, lost with be tolerated at best, and discarded at worst.
- Become a man who commands love, rather than chases it.
- Love is not unconditional, love is conditional.
- It is built on trust, respect and admiration.
- If you stop growing, if you become weak, you will lose her.
- You earn her love every single day.
- Women crave strength.
- A man who is constantly learning, improving and refining himself.
- A man with vision, ambition, discipline and the ability to lead.
- Not through control or domination but through example.
- Demand the best from each other.
Validation
- Women don’t respect men who need them to be secure.
- You need to be willing to walk away, if necessary.
- If you chase, she questions you.
- The moment you stops chasing, she starts questioning herself.
- The real battle is the one where you don’t have to fight for what you deserve in the first place.
- Trying to fix the problem is making it worse.
